Teen siblings playing a board game at dusk

September 28, 2026 · 5 min

Can I take the car?

I want to feel grown up.

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Lorena against a terracotta wall

Chapter 1 · 3:30 pm

After school

Lorena at the kitchen island with her teens
The first twenty minutes home, when they say the least.

Chapter 2 · 10 pm

Bedtime

I cannot sleep.

My head is full, or my phone is.

Try Come and sit for five minutes. The phone stays on the counter.

Issue 36: I cannot sleep.

Quiet desert street at dusk
The hour when the real talk starts, if you stay in the room.